stomach vagina vs the dress

Friday the 16th is getting closer, it seemed to creep up on me really fast. The stagette I will be attending's theme is classy and sexy. In between diaper changes, nursing, and spit ups I finally found time to look through my closet in hopes to find something that doesn't scream ...mom of three kids. Or on the other extreme from the earlier days ..I have no kids but id love to go home and try to make some..... I have failed. All my take me home to make kids dresses are ..SUPRISE..to small. Not that I'm to shocked as I remember having to do jumping jacks and some kind of wiggling yoga moves to squish into them even in the old days. Don't get me wrong I not huge but I definably need to loose the last 15 pounds to get back to pre baby weight if I have any hope of reclaiming my former wardrobe. My baby is only 4 months old so I'm actually doing pretty good (nursing helps ). But having a baby does things to your body, now I'm not talking about the stretch marks, or the widened hips, I'm talking about the skin which forms into the shape of a freshly waxed vagina on your stomach.

That dreaded W shaped crease that doesn't seem to look flattering in any of my former "go to" dresses. To my Mr this is me just Whining to get a new dress. To me, a new dress to look good on my new body, is my hope of fitting into the stagette theme classy and sexy. As women our bodies are constantly growing, stretching .. changing. So its only fair that on special occasions we can treat our self to a new little black dress. To all of you that also struggle with loving the new you. Stay strong you will get there ! Maybe all you need is a new little black dress xoxo