Raising kids can be tough even tougher when your parenting partner is working in the oil patch, and all your family is hours away. I hope to share some of the blessings, Struggles, laughs and reasons why I drink wine , with you as a stay at home mom aka SAHM
Tuesday, January 27, 2015
Dont sweat the small stuff
Not everyday is a good day. Happy unicorns and rainbows are not everyday life.Sometimes Unicorns have to poop and when they do they choose the brightest most colourful rainbow to shit on. Excuse the metaphor. It has been hard for me to post lately as I have been arguing with my significant other, whom at the moment I do not find very significant. That's life . Sometimes people fight. I'm an Aries and I seem to hold a grudge for a long time. Also being a SAHM doesn't help, as I am home a lot ,which is dangerous for any women in an argument, as I get to dwell on things more, and think of different scenarios all day, which ends up with me being even madder when he gets home.
This morning I woke up optimistic , i was going to forget that i was mad ..then i saw this;...
Socks left in the living room,
Meat racks in the sink(he made homemade beef jerky and left them for me to clean),
tooth paste blobs in the sink,
coffee spills on the counter,
dirty clothes on the bedroom floor.
Tiny, pet peeves, which seem so small now that I am writing it all out ,managed to ruin my day. how can I let these miniscule annoyances bother me? BOREDOM!!! So I've decided instead of sabotaging my relationship its time to get more serious with Beach Body . I ordered the new 21DAY FIX and am excited to try it after I complete the T25 series. Wish me luck !!! And remember to not let those small annoyances ruin your life, talk about them yes , but make sure to do something for yourself everyday. Its easy to forget about yourself when you are so focused on looking after everyone else ...Its exhausting. But if you don't look after yourself who will? A happy mom means happy kids . Its hard not to sweat the small stuff. Pick your battles ladies as being angry all the time is lonely and exhausting......CHEERS
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